A couple of days ago I was thinking about when Dylan and I first moved in together. Reminiscing on those first couple of months (probably a year) when we were getting to know each other better. There was quiet an adjustment period where we were learning the small rhythms of each other’s lives. It wasn’t just about how we shared a space—it was about the food, too. I had grown up in a Mexican household where breakfast often meant tortillas, beans, barbacoa and huevos a la mexicana. For Dylan, breakfast usually meant takeout—a quick stop at a coffee shop and a sausage, egg, and biscuit sandwich.
I remember the first time I asked him if he’d ever had huevos a la mexicana, and he said no. I was shocked—how could someone who loved eating Mexican food have never tried one of the most classic dishes? For me, it was the standard. For him, it was brand new.
Cooking for someone in those early days of sharing a home felt like its own kind of conversation—me showing him the flavors that shaped me, him teaching me what comfort tasted like for him. And it reminded me of growing up in my parents’ house, where meals were always adjusted to my spice tolerance (lower than the rest of my family, whose picante (chile heat) levels were basically superhuman). My mom would scoop out my portion before adding the extra fiery salsa, the way only someone who loves you would think to do.
So when I first made huevos a la mexicana for Dylan, I cooked them the way I always had: onion and jalapeño softened together, tomatoes added until they released their juices, and then eggs folded in gently until they set. I plated them up with beans and warm tortillas. He was skeptical—but then he took a bite, and I saw his expression change. It was simple, but it was new, and it became one of the first dishes that belonged to our little kitchen, not just mine.
And that’s why I wanted to share it here with you. Maybe you’ve never tried huevos a la mexicana. Maybe you have, but you’ve forgotten how comforting it is to take three humble ingredients—onion, tomato, chile—and turn them into something warm, fragrant, and satisfying. Either way, this recipe is a reminder that the simplest food often carries the deepest roots.
Servings: 2–3
When to Make: Perfect for a weekday breakfast, lazy weekend brunch, or whenever you crave something savory and warm.
Ingredients
For the Huevos a la Mexicana:
6 large eggs
2 medium Roma tomatoes, finely diced
1 small white onion, finely chopped
1–2 fresh jalapeños or serrano peppers, seeded and finely chopped (adjust spice to taste)
2 tablespoons neutral oil or butter (lard if you want tradition)
Salt, to taste
Black pepper, to taste
Optional garnish: chopped cilantro, avocado slices, queso fresco, warm tortillas, refried beans
For the Quick Black Beans:
1 can black beans (15 oz)
1–2 tablespoons neutral oil
½ small white onion, finely chopped
½ jalapeño, finely chopped (optional for flavor)
1 garlic clove, minced (optional)
Salt, to taste
Method
Huevos a la Mexicana
Sauté the base: Heat oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add onion and jalapeño. Cook 2–3 minutes, until softened and fragrant.
Add tomatoes: Stir in diced tomatoes. Cook 3–4 minutes, until softened and juicy. Season lightly with salt.
Beat the eggs: Whisk eggs with a pinch of salt and pepper.
Scramble gently: Pour eggs into skillet over the vegetables. Stir slowly, folding as they set, until softly cooked and just moist. Remove from heat.
Serve: Transfer to plates and enjoy with tortillas, beans, or avocado.




Quick Black Beans
In a small saucepan, heat oil over medium heat. Add onion (and jalapeño if using). Cook 2–3 minutes until softened.
Add garlic if using, and cook just until fragrant, 30 seconds. To be honest I don’t garlic all the time only when Dylan asks for it. He loves garlic.
Pour in canned black beans (including liquid). Stir, reduce to low heat, and let simmer about 10–15 minutes. Season with salt to taste.


Serve With a Breeze
Warm corn tortillas or bolillos
Refried beans topped with queso fresco
Avocado slices or a simple salsa verde on the side
Coffee, café de olla, or fresh orange juice
Kitchen Notes
For bolder flavor, swap jalapeño for serrano. Serrano is spicier, a lot more heat.
Don’t overcook—soft curds keep this dish tender and light.
A crumble of queso fresco or drizzle of crema takes it into indulgence territory.
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A Note from Lily
Huevos a la Mexicana always brings me back to the simplest kind of joy in the kitchen. It’s a recipe of rhythm more than precision: a handful of tomatoes, a sharp chile, a little onion, and the way eggs pull everything together. It reminds me that beauty often lives in the everyday, in meals that come together in ten minutes yet feel like home. 🌿
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This sounds and looks so incredibly delicious - will definitely be trying this soon!
This is so heartwarming- nourishment for the soul to read. Yes, sharing our cooking with another is an unspoken conversation; To get to know them- and with each bite, they may get to know us better. The relationship dynamic evolves and deepens every time also. Gradually, the recipe might differ from when it was initially introduced, and becomes its very own entity, and that’s how recipes grow; Right alongside all of us, and where we are at with one another. That essence is so beautifully captured, Lily! Thank you for sharing this wonderful breakfast recipe so full of great beginnings!